Moving together
with intention, curiosity,
and compassion

Meet Gem Raff (formerly Er Raff)

I identify as queer, trans non-binary (they/he), and white. I have been living, working, dancing, performing, and engaging in different communities in Vermont since 2011. I value a collaborative learning environment, and address people as whole beings. The majority of my career thus far has been working with queer and trans folks with eating disorders. I have expanded my work to also include sex therapy for individuals, couples, and moresomes. I also offer letter writing for gender affirming care. I use compassionate, person-centered, narrative, harm reductionist, liberatory and constructionist lens and frameworks to help people unpack what is at the root of their pain and hardships, and build new neural pathways that can help construct a new path forward.  I work part time and hope to be able to work with you! 

Under my business Finding Ways LLC, you can engage with me as a therapy client, supervisee, or consultee. Please take time to read over the different offerings to see what may feel best to you.